An art depicting two people in love
Getting and Keeping Your Love
5 July 2014 By Abi Giwa
It has a reason humans are created. The good book tells us that when Adam was created, he was alone, but the creator saw that it was not good for him to be alone and He took the bone of his rib and created a woman. Adam and Eve were together in spite of the curse,the trouble in child bearing and the endless work without getting rich. No story that Adam abandoned Eve.
Some people believe that Eve must have been beautiful inside and outside. This means that she must been physically beautiful with manners. Many people still believe today that it requires more than physical beauty for a woman to keep a man. They say it is one thing to get a man, it is another to keep him. And many men talk about loving and having a woman with character than one with physical beauty.
However, the truth remains that physical beauty is what attracts a woman to a man, before the man begins to examine any other factor required to remain in a relationship. Yes, remain in a relationship. No one goes into a relationship for the sole reason to abandon it. Everyone wants to pluck a fruit and keep it. But these days the rate people abandon relationship is so alarming that even people are saying manners are no longer strong enough to make the man stick to what he has done so much to get. The accusation here is that the man is always looking for something new or something fresh. This has led womenfolk to develop new ways of handling relationship issues.
Women know the extent they go as youths to get their first dates. They say it is necessary that the beauty and the cleanliness present outwardly to get the man in the hook must be maintained. They say that the man as the hunter looks for what will charm, grab and hold him, his friend and family. So also is the woman. But as soon as child bearing sets in for the woman, the situation changes. However, many women have been able to remain beautiful all years round despite child bearing and they keep their men. But some women are not so lucky, allowing the charm and the power to hold the man disappear.
The charm used in getting the man at the initial stage, some women have confided, needs to be always there to keep the man. They say the man is adventurous. He loves the charm and the good smell, just like the woman likes the man's look and sweet talk. When the man loses grip with his look and the sweet talk is no longer there, the woman may walk away. But that a good looking man who still retains his sweet talk can sweep away a
woman. They say the woman likes and savors a man who tells her she is beautiful, even when she knows she is not.
One important factor in relationship, people who have experience say, is the need for the woman to know what has attracted her to the man in the beginning and keep it and not let it go. The same is applicable to the man about what he did to get the woman; don't let it go be it dressing well or talking about beauty and love that she want to hear. If a man is not vulgar before he gets his love and suddenly becomes vulgar, they say it is dangerous for love. A woman who has always been keeping low profile who suddenly becomes high profile to her man's consternation middle of the journey is threatening her love.
Now, they say the most important, for the woman is for the man to keep being in good health,good shape and to be able to answer nature's call for the woman's erotic needs. It is about the importance of emotion and loved to keep sane, the need of love to keep the balance and avoid depression.
Some people believe that Eve must have been beautiful inside and outside. This means that she must been physically beautiful with manners. Many people still believe today that it requires more than physical beauty for a woman to keep a man. They say it is one thing to get a man, it is another to keep him. And many men talk about loving and having a woman with character than one with physical beauty.
However, the truth remains that physical beauty is what attracts a woman to a man, before the man begins to examine any other factor required to remain in a relationship. Yes, remain in a relationship. No one goes into a relationship for the sole reason to abandon it. Everyone wants to pluck a fruit and keep it. But these days the rate people abandon relationship is so alarming that even people are saying manners are no longer strong enough to make the man stick to what he has done so much to get. The accusation here is that the man is always looking for something new or something fresh. This has led womenfolk to develop new ways of handling relationship issues.
Women know the extent they go as youths to get their first dates. They say it is necessary that the beauty and the cleanliness present outwardly to get the man in the hook must be maintained. They say that the man as the hunter looks for what will charm, grab and hold him, his friend and family. So also is the woman. But as soon as child bearing sets in for the woman, the situation changes. However, many women have been able to remain beautiful all years round despite child bearing and they keep their men. But some women are not so lucky, allowing the charm and the power to hold the man disappear.
The charm used in getting the man at the initial stage, some women have confided, needs to be always there to keep the man. They say the man is adventurous. He loves the charm and the good smell, just like the woman likes the man's look and sweet talk. When the man loses grip with his look and the sweet talk is no longer there, the woman may walk away. But that a good looking man who still retains his sweet talk can sweep away a
woman. They say the woman likes and savors a man who tells her she is beautiful, even when she knows she is not.
One important factor in relationship, people who have experience say, is the need for the woman to know what has attracted her to the man in the beginning and keep it and not let it go. The same is applicable to the man about what he did to get the woman; don't let it go be it dressing well or talking about beauty and love that she want to hear. If a man is not vulgar before he gets his love and suddenly becomes vulgar, they say it is dangerous for love. A woman who has always been keeping low profile who suddenly becomes high profile to her man's consternation middle of the journey is threatening her love.
Now, they say the most important, for the woman is for the man to keep being in good health,good shape and to be able to answer nature's call for the woman's erotic needs. It is about the importance of emotion and loved to keep sane, the need of love to keep the balance and avoid depression.
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